Yeah Stella is bad but that doesn't excuse Stolas from being a shit dad. I'll just paste what I've said before in past threads
Cheats on wife publicly
Didn't really try to understand his daughter.
Focused on unleashing his anger on Stella instead of checking in with his daughter
Only thought of Blitzo as a sex toy for most of the show
Still didn't really think about how Blitzo felt about their dynamic even when he started to have genuine feelings for them
Acts like Blitzo is the bad guy during their big argument when literally everything he said was correct
Literally went to trial and was prepared to die in Blizto's face, without even talking with Octavia at all beforehand. He was willing to sacrifice everything for Blitzo, including being able to be there for his daughter.
Blitzo doesn't care about Octavia in the slightest, wants nothing to do with her, Stolas is fine with that
All of you need to fuck off with this spam, you guys don't even appreciate Stolas for what he is, a well written fuck-up. I'm glad that Viv is letting him live with his decision. He may have gotten Blitzo back but there goes his relationship with his daughter. Sage